Crowning Moments
Excerpts from the book “When the Blind Man Knocks” by Anne Dale
In October, 2009, one Friday night would begin to change the world’s perception of special needs people. A leader takes the stage and in her heroic way states to the world, “That what makes you different makes you beautiful”. Katie Brewster, Easter Seals Ambassador, had been elected homecoming queen of her high school. That night two thousand students proudly chanted their queen and role model’s name, “Katie, Katie” as she was crowned at the annual homecoming game. Katie was born with Cerebral Palsy. It was a crowning moment not only for her, but for all those with special needs.
Katie’s goal was not to be homecoming queen, but to be a voice for special needs people. The perception of “the forgotten race”, as Katie’s mother describes those who are sometimes overlooked and long to be included in society, has begun to diminish, and a new era of recognition and acceptance has begun. “It was at that moment that Katie felt the sense of truly belonging, of being valued and celebrated in spite of her disability”, said Katie’s mother.
Those who know Katie talk about her gentle, joyous demeanor, and how she always smiles, even when she must face great obstacles and physical pain. Not all of her crowning moments are in the public eye. One of her first physical goals was to learn how to walk…a goal that took seven years to accomplish.
With a champion’s determination, Katie is very social and actively involved in the community. I would have the privilege of learning something incredibly profound about her, and perhaps many other special needs people. When we sat down for an interview, Katie had this uncanny ability to look straight through me into the window of my soul. It was powerful. I experienced her gift; she is able to read a person’s sincerity. She can see people for who they are, not who they want to be perceived as. She sees truth. I was enchanted by this and taken by surprise. It was a moment that crowned the blessing of the intent of the jewelry piece and the interview. Acknowledging her precious gift, I smiled and nodded my head with gratitude and the appreciation of her trust. To those watching, it would appear to have been only an exchange of glances that lasted for several seconds, but for me it remains etched on my soul and will last all my life time.
Anne: “Katie what is your disability?”
Katie: “Cerebral Palsy”, her mother interprets her sign language.
Anne: “What is your ability?”
Katie: “People. I am very social. I like people. I like to help people no matter who they are. I help care for others by doing things like serve meals to senior citizens, push someone in a wheelchair, and help out at community events. I have a lot of energy and I like to go, go, and go. I like to keep busy with people and do for them.”
Anne: “What do you want others to know about people with disabilities?”
Katie: “That they are not defined by their disability. They have hopes and dreams. They have feelings.”
Anne: “What advice would you give to special needs young adults? “ Katie: “Some people see differences and need to overcome that behavior. Don’t be afraid to get involved. For every four people who walk by you, one will reach out. Always hold your head up. Don’t let other people’s ignorance get you down. Remember, that what makes you different makes you beautiful.”
Katie Brewster inspired jeweler Anne Dale to create a motivational piece entitled “Crowning Moments™”. “Everyone has goals no matter how big or small. Even if the goal is kept in your heart for only you, when successfully achieved, it is worthy of a crown”, says Anne Dale.
”Crowing Moments™” can be worn as a pendant or pin the net proceeds benefit Easter Seals of Louisiana. Give the gift that keeps on giving this Christmas and encourage loved ones to celebrate their Crowing Moments.